Behavior as Survival

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Companion Slides

Every behavior was once a solution — reframing what looks 'difficult' or 'irrational' as adaptive.

Key Concepts

  • All behavior has meaning — including behaviors that confuse us
  • Trauma intensifies survival strategies that once worked
  • What looks like defiance may be protection from past harm
  • Meeting survival behavior with punishment reinforces trauma's lesson: the world is unsafe
  • The question shifts from 'What's wrong with you?' to 'What is this behavior protecting from?'

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Module 2: How Trauma Shows Up

Recognizing trauma responses in behavior, across ages, in the body, and through a trauma-informed lens.

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